Rough 24 hours

Well, Gary has a girlfriend...he introduced Dylan (8 year old) to her....Dylan was then the messenger to tell me.  Nice!  I reacted.  I probably shouldn't have.  Gary did eventually apologize.  They have already had the discussion of not wanting to take over 'motherly duties' from me.  Hmmm.  The divorce has been finalized for 1 week.  You come to timing conclusions.  Andrew (22 year old) is talking with Gary tonight.  I pray for a good conversation, but Andrew is very angry and upset.  I'm exhausted, after a wonderful week off.  Dylan is back sleeping with me, due to the new / additional stress and confusion.  I had made such strides with him last week.  I guess I'm left with pieces to fix again.