If you were taught that there is one person who is right for you to marry out there, do the math on that! Do you believe that God has a Blueprint for you? If you think you married the wrong person and you had kids, then they shouldn't have ever existed. Then, they married and had children that shouldn't have existed. You go to the mall and see other children, were they the children you were supposed to have? NOT!
Stop looking at the green pasture on the other side of the fence and own up to the commitments you have made with your life partner, through the good times AND the bad. Life isn't about the blueprint that God has for you. Life is about the person (commitment, promises, character, relationships, decisions, integrity, love) you choose to become / live.
You didn't marry the wrong person. Consider yourself blessed that someone wanted to marry you (chuckle), in spite of your faults.
I've heard a commercial / encouragement on Christian radio this month (June!). A wife gave a valentine card to her husband after considerable years of marriage. It read "You know me better than anyone else. You know my strengths, weaknesses, and faults.

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